Tuesday, November 6, 2007

Who Else Wants to Know The Secret Ways of Success?

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Some workers face a specific phase where they feel a certain kind of fear. There are two types of fear an employee might feel. First is fear of failure and the second one is fear of success.

Those feeling the fear of failure are afraid of making mistakes and losing approval. They tend to also be scared of criticism and rejection. These people are likely to avoid risks. Meanwhile, one of the ways to success is by taking risks.

Fear of success is another thing. It is the fear of accomplishment and being recognized and honored. This kind of fear is related to changes which are mostly heading to a better stage.

Women are those who mostly feel this kind of fear. They are afraid that being strong enough to create the life they want will make them unlovable.

These two types of fear might block your way to success. What you need to do is get rid of them and step forward to grab your success.

Here are some simple things you can do:

to overcome the fear of failure:

Don’t be so hard on yourself. If you fail, accept it. Turn the failure into something positive. Figure out where you went wrong. Learn from it. Then, apply you’re your next attempt. Even if you fail again, don’t let it stop you. Keep trying again and again. For some people, talking about this fear helps. Discuss it with someone you trust or with an expert.

to overcome the fear of success:

Take some time to contemplate, to understand what happens to you and how you feel. Pull out any negative thoughts or beliefs resulted from your success. Have a high regard for yourself, your hard work, and your accomplishment. Affirm to yourself that you deserve it. Don’t feel guilty for being successful. And, gain your power back.

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